Ma'am? Ma'am. . . MA'AM, please. This is me, talking to you. Up here at the top of the aisle. Wearing the flight attendant getup. Look over here. See me now? Right. Making the safety speech. Pay attention, this is important. No, not the pointy gestures toward the exits. Not the buckle-y strap part. Right now. The part that goes "in the event of a loss of pressure in the cabin."
event of a loss of pressure in the cabin your oxygen mask will
miraculously fall down from the ceiling into your lap. And if you are
sitting next to a small child, then MA'AM, this is the part I wanted you
to listen to.
PUT YOUR OWN OXYGEN MASK ON FIRST. [ahem]. FIRST.
I'm going to say it again now. OXYGEN MASK. YOU. FIRST.
taking care of someone else take care of yourself. Harder to do than you think, huh?
You're out there, trying to figure out which bills to pay, and
maybe you're even freaked out because even though your mother told you
to be responsible about money, you're thinking way too far ahead and
you're worried about college savings for a six-year old. And because of
that, you're throwing out the registration form for the class you have
been wanting to take for a couple of years now, the one you need to take
so you can meet the people you need to meet to get the job you want.
Or you're thinking about settling for the next [job, man, apartment] you
find instead of taking the first job opportunity that comes along, just
to have something, something for them, instead of getting the good one that you really deserve.
Try not to panic. Put your own mask on first. Do that five minute meditation you've keep thinking you "should" do. Get your hair done. Hire some cleaning help. Take that lunch meeting. The kids can do without. In fact, they will turn out fine, or even better, because you'll be able to take care of them. Solid. Oxygen filled. Put your mask on first.
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